Monday, March 9, 2009

Happily Married People Look Like This...

I heard this on the radio the other day and thought it was pretty interesting.  It was more than just the broad, "cultivate intimacy, have a sense of humor, etc."  

These are some daily behaviors that were observed in couples that had been happily married for 25 years or more:
  • Kissed (pecks count) at least 4x day
  • Hugged at least 2x day
  • Said "I love you" at least 2x day
  • Sat within a foot of one another for longer than 5 minutes (watching TV, reading, etc.) each day
  • Were intimate at least 3x week
I feel like these behaviors are more results of good communication, forgiveness, transparency, and daily prayer for each other.  But by the same token, just doing them feels pretty good too.

2 comments:

Beka Dean said...

i can't wait til you and jim look like that.

love you! (that's once)

jim thompson said...

i just looked at this picture again today and it is dang funny.

you are a happy and funny lady and i'm glad you didn't marry anyone else cause that would've been stupid.